Showing posts with label anorexia. Show all posts
Showing posts with label anorexia. Show all posts
Thursday, 31 January 2013
Day 287: Asthma – How I Prevented it in my Children
Where Asthma is genetically in a Family Bloodline - like in mine - where my grandfather had Chronic Asthma and died from it, my uncle had Chronic Asthma and died from it – the chances of it occurring in the Children down the Line is increased.
How Genetics play a role in this will be the topic of another blog.
Within this one, we are specifically looking at my two Children. My Daughter at the age of 5 suddenly developed Asthma. We investigated what to do and came across Kinesiology. We took her for a session where I was not present. There was a Traumatic Event at the Home where my ex-wife suddenly Miscarried one night and we had to get her to the Hospital and leave my Daughter at the neighbours.
My wife was at the hospital overnight and the next morning I took my Daughter to the Beach Front where we had Ice-Cream while feeding the doves at the beach - which was something she liked A Lot.
During the Kinesiology Session I received a phone call, I was asked whether I took her on That Morning to a place where I gave her Ice-Cream. I said ‘Yes, I did that’. The Kinesiologist deprogrammed the Trigger that was related to the previous night’s Trauma and Anxiety and Fear and the Asthma Immediately Stopped. This obviously Peaked my Interest in Kinesiology which I then used extensively over a period of 12 (Twelve) Years in my own Deprogramming and Reprogramming to Effective Awareness.
Obviously, this is not just something Randomly done and require an Extensive Understanding and Specificity and Objective Self-Honesty to be able to Adjust ones Pre-Ordained Existence.
And the Consequences of this is that everyone around you will no longer know you as ‘who you were’ and will React to the ‘New You’ - Mostly in most Unfavourable Ways.
So, do not use Kinesiology unless you have Very Clear Understanding of How-to and within this you will need a Kinesiologist and it is a Very Expensive Process.
With my Son, the situation was different. I was present at the Moment when the Asthma Triggered. He was Playing with someone in the House, who was Tickling him and during the Tickling he became Anxious and Gasping for Air and his Chest started Closing-up.
At this Stage I have already acquired Extensive Skills in relation to How the Human Actually Functions and How-to Direct the Will of the Life-Force to make Clear Decisions Immediately while in fact Walking with-it As the Person in Real-Time. And therefore I could Move with the Life-Force as Myself - Equal and One - and thus Confirm that the Point is Clear and Support the Person to the Correction.
So I Immediately indicated to him, Directly at the Level of his Life-Awareness to Stop and to Not Go Into the Condition of Fear where he was going as he was Creating a Problem. I Stood with him until he Corrected it and the Chest Opened and the Condition Never Re-occurred.
The Skills Necessary to Walk with a Life-Force As Yourself and Another - One and Equal - is taught through the Desteni Material and one can start with that with the DIP Lite course. There is no Quick fix - you’re not suddenly going to be Aware of what Life-Force is, where it is Situated in the Physical Body and How-to Move with-it and How you can Confirm this through the Movement of your Own Life-Force within you. As the Life-Force is Connected Equal and One, and has Nothing to do with your Consciousness, your Thoughts, your Feelings, your Emotions, your Imagination and Everything you currently are Aware of.
In Time, in the Future - Asthma will become a Preventable Condition.
I will do several blogs around this showing the Multi-Facetted Nature of Asthma that is not only a Physical Condition and is not necessarily just based on the Chest closing-up. There is also Mental Asthma that can take on the form of Obsession and Compulsion with Positive Thinking, Love and Energy and takes on Physical Conditions such as Extreme Physical Exercise, conditions such as Anorexia and Bulimia - it is all Conditions with which one Re-Focus oneself from Fear and Anxiety that Stems from Childhood Events that you did Not Understand and that you did Not Manage and where you had No Parent present to be able to Realise that you are experiencing the Condition of Fear or of Anxiety. Parents tend to Treat Children as Stupid, just because they are not Equal in their Language-Ability.
The Child, is Superior to the parent in the first 7 (Seven) Years as a Quantum Physical Being, which is why only Children goes to Heaven as the Bible implies. You have to Become like a Child, to enter Heaven. Thus you have to Return to the Quantum Physical Condition/Awareness that Exists in the First Few Years of a Child and is the Foundation through which a Child Integrate the Total Consciousness on Earth and is the Time within which the Child Construct the Mind-Parameters that will create the Personalities - mostly obviously: Personality Disorders actually - because the Parent have No-Skill whatsoever and are also in a Mental Disorder Condition.
This is Why the World is in a Mess.
Because the Foundation-Stage at which Learning Takes Place is Not Understood at all and from Generation to Generation only Disorder is Transferred and No Actual-Understanding. It takes a minimum, of 14 (Fourteen) Years to acquire Skill that will Correct these Conditions. This Should have Happened during the 14 (Fourteen) Formative-Years of a Child and it Didn’t.
Many react to the Desteni Message, as they Must - because no one wants to Hear that Everything they’ve Ever Known is a Lie. Yet no two Human Beings completely Trust each other because Always the Little Voice in the Back tells you the Person May Be Lying and is Only doing so Because you as a Human Being Lie at least 3 (Three) Times every 10 (Ten) Minutes that you are Thinking or Speaking. This is already known in Psychology, yet the Individual Human continues to Present itself as a ‘Moral Being and as somewhat of a ‘Higher Consciousness’.
That Science has Proof - is a Lie.
Understanding How you Function and Why you Function the Way you do, where Every Thought Originates from, How you Created it, where Every Feeling Originate from and How you Create it - should be a Common Sense Realisation that this Must be Understood, if you are to Be a Being of Integrity. If you do not Understand this in its Mechanical Specific Detail, You Cannot Trust You - Ever.
Tuesday, 22 January 2013
Day 279: Anorexia and Desteni
In these Posts on Eating Disorders, I am touching on Some Aspects - to Give
some Context to Obsessive Compulsive Disorders (OCD), in Ways to Show
that these Compulsions could be Understood and be Removed once one
Understand How you Created them. In this, the Key is - Understanding the
Mechanical, Structural Functioning of the Mind and How the Mind Package, Present, Transform and Manage Energy that the Mind Harvest from the Physical Body.
So, with Anorexia we’re going to look at the Aspect of Calorie Counting.
The Obsession around Calorie Counting makes quite a Few Assumptions. But, what is Interesting about Obsession is that: Behind Obsession – there is Discipline. It takes Immense Discipline to Remain Obsessive Compulsive, to Remain Dedicated to a Point and therefore, Obsessive Compulsive Disorders (OCD) – Manifest in Multiple Ways. It is Disorder when it Result in some form of Disharmony or Inequality. That’s Why you will See Obsessive Compulsive Disorders (OCD) for instance, also within Religion, Spirituality – specifically where, the Person will become Obsessed with Their Version of Reality that Justify Inequality or Disharmony, Just to Protect their Position of Privilege, or Perceived Intellect, or Perceived Enlightenment.
Because the Justification for the Obsession, the Compulsion, is Complete - in as much as they Believe they are Right, no matter what: it Brings One to the Peculiar Point where Faith Reveals itself as the Underlying Culprit of Any Obsessive Compulsion. Because, Faith – with Discipline, that Result from a Belief that ‘you are Right’: Trap you within the Imaginary World of your Righteousness, so Completely – that No Other Voice but your Own can be Heard. And therefore, you will Avoid and try and Destroy ANYONE that Enter your World – Challenging your Obsession. You’ll also Seek out others with Similar Obsessions and form Groups that Justify Why the Particular Approach that Cause Disharmony, Division and Inequality is Acceptable. And that, as such – there is Acceptable Reasons Why Life should Not be Equal.
What is Fascinating about this, is that: this Religious and Spiritual Approach As OCD, is the Same that Manifest in ALL Obsessive Compulsive Behaviour – also in Anorexia.
The Anorexic that Count Calories, Obviously make Several Assumptions of Trust. For instance: that the Guideline of Calories, worked out by Scientists – are In Fact, ‘Exact’. But, if you Investigate it – you’ll Find: it’s Not. Yet, you will Base Life-Decisions on this Information, as if it is your Bible, or your Spiritual Path. Furthermore, you will Believe - as if it is Unquestionable, that: the Various Nutritional Aspects that Scientists present as Necessary for the Body – is All you should be Concerned about. This is again very similar to a Person that would Completely Disregard Life in Favour of a Spiritual or Religious Views, and that would Condemn any Empirical Evidence to the Contrary.
What is Furthermore Interesting, is that: the Calorie Counter will Not Normally use the Calorie Guide exactly, but would even Half or bring down the Calories to Only a Quarter of the Suggested Amounts on the Nutrition Table. Taking, so to speak, a Step – Based on an Idea, that somehow, just because they got a little bit of Knowledge: they suddenly know a Hell of a lot about Nutrition, and therefore – ‘their Point of View is Right’. This is called The Dunning-Kruger effect: “The Dunning–Kruger effect is a cognitive bias in which unskilled individuals suffer from illusory superiority, mistakenly rating their ability much higher than average. This bias is attributed to a metacognitive inability of the unskilled to recognize their mistakes.[1]” QUOTE
This Effect is One of the Reasons Why it is Very Difficult to Communicate to the Self-Converted, and in this – everyone with a Very Strong Belief in something, for instance, the Bible or the Calorie Table, or in Buddha, or in any other Teaching - whether Religious or Scientific: is in fact Self-Converted. When one Study the Mind and How a Thought is Designed and Aligned with Imagination and the Idea and Ideals of Self to Create an Energetic-Experience that is So Convincing, that it is Believed to be Something that Must be Trusted: is One of the Facets of this Effect.
For the Calorie Counter, it becomes Necessary to Realise – before one Harms your Body Extensively, that: you are Not an Expert, and that Even the Information you are Basing your Expertise on are Not Necessarily Trustworthy. Therefore, One Must Reconsider what you Give Value to and Realise that: you Have One Life on Earth, which you can Live in a Way that is Not just Self-Centred, but that Consider that Life is Not about Images and Imagination, but Life is for Living. And thus, one can Stop the Quest for Individual Perfection – and rather Focus on Perfecting the Togetherness of All Parts Here on Earth. And Make the Experience of Life on Earth for Everyone, something Worth Living.
We have had Great Success with Solutions for the Anorexic Condition. Unfortunately, it is normally Created over a long period of time, and therefore the Correction takes time. But, what already exist in the Anorexic: is Discipline and an Ability to Focus. Yes, it may be Obsessive and Compulsive – but in it is the Ability to Focus on an Outcome that will, in the Imagination, Lead to some Perfection in some cases, or in others, some Satisfaction of Control, or any other Achievement the Imagination was Created into Believing to be the Reason Why there is something about the Person’s Body that can be Perfected or Controlled, through a Strict Regime, of Counted Calories.
For those Interested in Assisting themselves, Join DIP LITE, Joint he Desteni Forum – and Indicate your Interest for Support. And those that are already walking the Journey to Life for themselves, to bring about a World Perfected in Ways that Consider ALL Life, and not only themselves: will Step Up and be of Support.
Understand, that – when you are Trapped in your Imagination: the Physical Body also gets Addicted to the Energy that is Generated, and therefore, in a Way, you are Under the Influence of a Drug. In this, the Imagination that Stimulates the Physical Body to Release Chemicals that will make the Initial Break with your Compulsive Condition – quite Challenging. But, Creating the Condition in the first place was quite a Challenge, if you Look back. So, you have already Proven – that you can face Extreme Challenges. You just have to Change, the Fundamental Reason Why you have conditioned yourself to the Compulsion, to Something Tangible that do not only include you and those that agree with you, but Consider: the very Essence of That which Gives you Life as the Same as That which Gives Everyone else Life. And from That Starting Point of Equality: Reassess the Reason for your Being.
So, with Anorexia we’re going to look at the Aspect of Calorie Counting.
The Obsession around Calorie Counting makes quite a Few Assumptions. But, what is Interesting about Obsession is that: Behind Obsession – there is Discipline. It takes Immense Discipline to Remain Obsessive Compulsive, to Remain Dedicated to a Point and therefore, Obsessive Compulsive Disorders (OCD) – Manifest in Multiple Ways. It is Disorder when it Result in some form of Disharmony or Inequality. That’s Why you will See Obsessive Compulsive Disorders (OCD) for instance, also within Religion, Spirituality – specifically where, the Person will become Obsessed with Their Version of Reality that Justify Inequality or Disharmony, Just to Protect their Position of Privilege, or Perceived Intellect, or Perceived Enlightenment.
Because the Justification for the Obsession, the Compulsion, is Complete - in as much as they Believe they are Right, no matter what: it Brings One to the Peculiar Point where Faith Reveals itself as the Underlying Culprit of Any Obsessive Compulsion. Because, Faith – with Discipline, that Result from a Belief that ‘you are Right’: Trap you within the Imaginary World of your Righteousness, so Completely – that No Other Voice but your Own can be Heard. And therefore, you will Avoid and try and Destroy ANYONE that Enter your World – Challenging your Obsession. You’ll also Seek out others with Similar Obsessions and form Groups that Justify Why the Particular Approach that Cause Disharmony, Division and Inequality is Acceptable. And that, as such – there is Acceptable Reasons Why Life should Not be Equal.
What is Fascinating about this, is that: this Religious and Spiritual Approach As OCD, is the Same that Manifest in ALL Obsessive Compulsive Behaviour – also in Anorexia.
The Anorexic that Count Calories, Obviously make Several Assumptions of Trust. For instance: that the Guideline of Calories, worked out by Scientists – are In Fact, ‘Exact’. But, if you Investigate it – you’ll Find: it’s Not. Yet, you will Base Life-Decisions on this Information, as if it is your Bible, or your Spiritual Path. Furthermore, you will Believe - as if it is Unquestionable, that: the Various Nutritional Aspects that Scientists present as Necessary for the Body – is All you should be Concerned about. This is again very similar to a Person that would Completely Disregard Life in Favour of a Spiritual or Religious Views, and that would Condemn any Empirical Evidence to the Contrary.
What is Furthermore Interesting, is that: the Calorie Counter will Not Normally use the Calorie Guide exactly, but would even Half or bring down the Calories to Only a Quarter of the Suggested Amounts on the Nutrition Table. Taking, so to speak, a Step – Based on an Idea, that somehow, just because they got a little bit of Knowledge: they suddenly know a Hell of a lot about Nutrition, and therefore – ‘their Point of View is Right’. This is called The Dunning-Kruger effect: “The Dunning–Kruger effect is a cognitive bias in which unskilled individuals suffer from illusory superiority, mistakenly rating their ability much higher than average. This bias is attributed to a metacognitive inability of the unskilled to recognize their mistakes.[1]” QUOTE
This Effect is One of the Reasons Why it is Very Difficult to Communicate to the Self-Converted, and in this – everyone with a Very Strong Belief in something, for instance, the Bible or the Calorie Table, or in Buddha, or in any other Teaching - whether Religious or Scientific: is in fact Self-Converted. When one Study the Mind and How a Thought is Designed and Aligned with Imagination and the Idea and Ideals of Self to Create an Energetic-Experience that is So Convincing, that it is Believed to be Something that Must be Trusted: is One of the Facets of this Effect.
For the Calorie Counter, it becomes Necessary to Realise – before one Harms your Body Extensively, that: you are Not an Expert, and that Even the Information you are Basing your Expertise on are Not Necessarily Trustworthy. Therefore, One Must Reconsider what you Give Value to and Realise that: you Have One Life on Earth, which you can Live in a Way that is Not just Self-Centred, but that Consider that Life is Not about Images and Imagination, but Life is for Living. And thus, one can Stop the Quest for Individual Perfection – and rather Focus on Perfecting the Togetherness of All Parts Here on Earth. And Make the Experience of Life on Earth for Everyone, something Worth Living.
We have had Great Success with Solutions for the Anorexic Condition. Unfortunately, it is normally Created over a long period of time, and therefore the Correction takes time. But, what already exist in the Anorexic: is Discipline and an Ability to Focus. Yes, it may be Obsessive and Compulsive – but in it is the Ability to Focus on an Outcome that will, in the Imagination, Lead to some Perfection in some cases, or in others, some Satisfaction of Control, or any other Achievement the Imagination was Created into Believing to be the Reason Why there is something about the Person’s Body that can be Perfected or Controlled, through a Strict Regime, of Counted Calories.
For those Interested in Assisting themselves, Join DIP LITE, Joint he Desteni Forum – and Indicate your Interest for Support. And those that are already walking the Journey to Life for themselves, to bring about a World Perfected in Ways that Consider ALL Life, and not only themselves: will Step Up and be of Support.
Understand, that – when you are Trapped in your Imagination: the Physical Body also gets Addicted to the Energy that is Generated, and therefore, in a Way, you are Under the Influence of a Drug. In this, the Imagination that Stimulates the Physical Body to Release Chemicals that will make the Initial Break with your Compulsive Condition – quite Challenging. But, Creating the Condition in the first place was quite a Challenge, if you Look back. So, you have already Proven – that you can face Extreme Challenges. You just have to Change, the Fundamental Reason Why you have conditioned yourself to the Compulsion, to Something Tangible that do not only include you and those that agree with you, but Consider: the very Essence of That which Gives you Life as the Same as That which Gives Everyone else Life. And from That Starting Point of Equality: Reassess the Reason for your Being.
Related articles
Monday, 21 January 2013
Day 278: Binge, Bulimia and Desteni
Binging is a Condition that affects More people, More often. Although
Binging does seem to have a ‘Good Feeling’ attached to it, it is in fact
Based on Fear. Mostly the Fear of Losing out.
One will be able to Notice your Compulsion with Binging most clearly when you go to, for instance, a Wedding or a Party, or you eat in a group – you’ll tend to Load your plate Bigger than Normal, you’ll go back for More Portions, you’ll try and get the Last Piece and you’ll Eat the things you like More than Normal, just because it’s Available.
For most, Binging do not turn into Bulimia, but for some – Binging is the Doorway to Bulimia. They will Binge, then Feel Guilty and go to the Toilet, put their Finger down their Throat and Throw it All Up - Mostly All in Secret.
For the Wedding/Party Binger, there is a Process of Justification that takes place and a Form of Urgency/Anxiety that Capture the Imagination and Attention, to Ensure that the Person Move Effectively to Get More of the Food. There seems to be No Reasonable Limit as ‘Enough’ for a Binger.
The Origin/Cause of Binging lies within the Family. It’s either Based on a Form of Perceived Lack or the Cause of Overzealous Parents. Obviously, most Behaviour Issues and Compulsions within Society - were All Birthed at Home. Parents are Not Qualified to Bring a New Life Form into Being and to Ensure that Such Life Form, as a Child, will Become What’s Best for the Child and Best for the World.
Due to the Unskilled Parent, that would have a Desire to Produce a ‘Good Child’ – the Parent will Enforce certain Eating Rules and Food-Management Rules. This is Done by using Sweeping-Statements like “it’s Good for you”, “it’s Healthy for you”, or “it’s Bad for you”, “don’t waste your Food there are Starving Children” – all kinds of Bizarre Justifications as to Why a particular Regime must be Followed, when it comes to Food. The Child, obviously in Fear of the Parent – completely Helpless, Follows the Instructions of the Parent. But, within the Child Develops an Energy of Lack that Forms, eventually, a Binging Personality which will Emerge in Situations where there is the Opportunity for More and there is No Threat of Parental Control. In those Situations, the Person will Binge and they will Enjoy the Binging as a Form of Experience as ‘Freedom’ and therefore, it will ‘Feel Good’. It will Develop into a Situation of Obesity in many cases.
But because the Child become As Unskilled an Adult/Teenager as the Parent: there is No Ability to Assess the Behaviour as it exist within the Construct that Comprise the Memory-Designs which will Designate Energy to Particular Patterns of Behaviour. There is Also No Skill to Consider Any Change in Mood/Energy/Feeling/Emotion and How it Emerge as the Imagination of the Personality that Believes it Must Fulfil its Desire; sometimes even to a Level where it Believes it is its ‘Right’ to Fulfil this Desire. Erroneously a Person Believe that this Experience is ‘Themselves’ – when in Fact: it is a Virtual Random Set of Circumstance that Formed Memories, the Memories then Formed Connections and Relationships that was Energized in an Energy-Circuit; the Circuit Flows like the Alternator of a Car, Building up a Charge like in a Battery, which takes on an Energy-Form, in many cases Invisible – that End-up taking Hold of the Physical Body to Act-out the Desire, Fulfilling the Need Developed through Memories of Lack and/or Unfulfilment from Childhood. This All Plays out like in a State of Dream-Possession, where the Complete Attention and Action of the Person is Heightened. If one would Stop within this Experience, you’ll even Notice that your Skin Feels more Aware, your Attention and Observation of your Environment is More Aware – but this is Not Real Awareness. This is the Opportunism of the Designed-Entity as the Memories that Produced a Form of Consciousness with the Total Intent of Gaining a Particular Outcome that would Fulfil the Memory-Design; this Case being the Binging Personality.
This is As Unique an Experience for Each Person as it can be, as the facets that Comprise and Construct the Eventual Consciousness Entity as Binging-Personality – would be Uniquely Accumulated through a Number of Years – seemingly as Unimportant Events with No Major Impact. Yet, once Accumulated and Formed as an Energy-Force – would be So Powerful that it can, for the Little While Necessary: Direct the Total Awareness of the Person to such an Extent, that the Person will only Notice Afterwards that they have Ate more than Normal.
In the Case of a Bulimic that Binges: this is quite different, because – the Bulimic will experience a Hunger close to Starvation and would Eat ‘till they are so Full that it Feels like they have Averted Starvation. And then, in many cases, they End-up having to Throw up, simply because there is Too Much Food.
There are Many facets to this, and the Lines between Binging, Bulimia and Anorexia is many times Blurred. Realising that, any of these Compulsions can be Stopped through Effective Dissecting of the Memories, Energies, Patterns, to a Point where One Understand How you have Created the Particular Personality: is Important.
In this, one will Find that you – obviously, Will Deny that it is Possible to Stop. That’s Why it is Necessary to Connect with somebody that has Already Walked this process and Stopped. They already Know all the Excuses, All the Lies, All the Deception, All the Secrets, that can Possibly be Used to Remain Trapped within the Cycles of these Childhood-Entities.
Within this, One First Start with the DIP LITE Training and you start Reading the Blogs of those that has Already Walked this. And, once you are Ready to Commit to the Journey that it will take, which will be Years: you can Connect with a Person which Show, in Evidence, as Writing and Outcome – that they have Already Mastered this Point and you Ask for their Support.
That is Why, with the Journey to Life – the Blogs are Written. They are Evidence of the Dedicated-Application to bring-about a Wholesome Human and a Wholesome World that is Best for All. And thus, if you are Helped – it is Necessary, as a Form of Gratefulness: that you Share your Journey in Writing, so that you may be of Service and Support to others as well. It is Important to Walk this in a Structured Way, and therefore – the Desteni I Process, is a Commitment to yourself within which you get to know yourself, firstly as ‘What Needs Changing’ and then as ‘Who you will Create yourself to Be’.
Join us.
One will be able to Notice your Compulsion with Binging most clearly when you go to, for instance, a Wedding or a Party, or you eat in a group – you’ll tend to Load your plate Bigger than Normal, you’ll go back for More Portions, you’ll try and get the Last Piece and you’ll Eat the things you like More than Normal, just because it’s Available.
For most, Binging do not turn into Bulimia, but for some – Binging is the Doorway to Bulimia. They will Binge, then Feel Guilty and go to the Toilet, put their Finger down their Throat and Throw it All Up - Mostly All in Secret.
For the Wedding/Party Binger, there is a Process of Justification that takes place and a Form of Urgency/Anxiety that Capture the Imagination and Attention, to Ensure that the Person Move Effectively to Get More of the Food. There seems to be No Reasonable Limit as ‘Enough’ for a Binger.
The Origin/Cause of Binging lies within the Family. It’s either Based on a Form of Perceived Lack or the Cause of Overzealous Parents. Obviously, most Behaviour Issues and Compulsions within Society - were All Birthed at Home. Parents are Not Qualified to Bring a New Life Form into Being and to Ensure that Such Life Form, as a Child, will Become What’s Best for the Child and Best for the World.
Due to the Unskilled Parent, that would have a Desire to Produce a ‘Good Child’ – the Parent will Enforce certain Eating Rules and Food-Management Rules. This is Done by using Sweeping-Statements like “it’s Good for you”, “it’s Healthy for you”, or “it’s Bad for you”, “don’t waste your Food there are Starving Children” – all kinds of Bizarre Justifications as to Why a particular Regime must be Followed, when it comes to Food. The Child, obviously in Fear of the Parent – completely Helpless, Follows the Instructions of the Parent. But, within the Child Develops an Energy of Lack that Forms, eventually, a Binging Personality which will Emerge in Situations where there is the Opportunity for More and there is No Threat of Parental Control. In those Situations, the Person will Binge and they will Enjoy the Binging as a Form of Experience as ‘Freedom’ and therefore, it will ‘Feel Good’. It will Develop into a Situation of Obesity in many cases.
But because the Child become As Unskilled an Adult/Teenager as the Parent: there is No Ability to Assess the Behaviour as it exist within the Construct that Comprise the Memory-Designs which will Designate Energy to Particular Patterns of Behaviour. There is Also No Skill to Consider Any Change in Mood/Energy/Feeling/Emotion and How it Emerge as the Imagination of the Personality that Believes it Must Fulfil its Desire; sometimes even to a Level where it Believes it is its ‘Right’ to Fulfil this Desire. Erroneously a Person Believe that this Experience is ‘Themselves’ – when in Fact: it is a Virtual Random Set of Circumstance that Formed Memories, the Memories then Formed Connections and Relationships that was Energized in an Energy-Circuit; the Circuit Flows like the Alternator of a Car, Building up a Charge like in a Battery, which takes on an Energy-Form, in many cases Invisible – that End-up taking Hold of the Physical Body to Act-out the Desire, Fulfilling the Need Developed through Memories of Lack and/or Unfulfilment from Childhood. This All Plays out like in a State of Dream-Possession, where the Complete Attention and Action of the Person is Heightened. If one would Stop within this Experience, you’ll even Notice that your Skin Feels more Aware, your Attention and Observation of your Environment is More Aware – but this is Not Real Awareness. This is the Opportunism of the Designed-Entity as the Memories that Produced a Form of Consciousness with the Total Intent of Gaining a Particular Outcome that would Fulfil the Memory-Design; this Case being the Binging Personality.
This is As Unique an Experience for Each Person as it can be, as the facets that Comprise and Construct the Eventual Consciousness Entity as Binging-Personality – would be Uniquely Accumulated through a Number of Years – seemingly as Unimportant Events with No Major Impact. Yet, once Accumulated and Formed as an Energy-Force – would be So Powerful that it can, for the Little While Necessary: Direct the Total Awareness of the Person to such an Extent, that the Person will only Notice Afterwards that they have Ate more than Normal.
In the Case of a Bulimic that Binges: this is quite different, because – the Bulimic will experience a Hunger close to Starvation and would Eat ‘till they are so Full that it Feels like they have Averted Starvation. And then, in many cases, they End-up having to Throw up, simply because there is Too Much Food.
There are Many facets to this, and the Lines between Binging, Bulimia and Anorexia is many times Blurred. Realising that, any of these Compulsions can be Stopped through Effective Dissecting of the Memories, Energies, Patterns, to a Point where One Understand How you have Created the Particular Personality: is Important.
In this, one will Find that you – obviously, Will Deny that it is Possible to Stop. That’s Why it is Necessary to Connect with somebody that has Already Walked this process and Stopped. They already Know all the Excuses, All the Lies, All the Deception, All the Secrets, that can Possibly be Used to Remain Trapped within the Cycles of these Childhood-Entities.
Within this, One First Start with the DIP LITE Training and you start Reading the Blogs of those that has Already Walked this. And, once you are Ready to Commit to the Journey that it will take, which will be Years: you can Connect with a Person which Show, in Evidence, as Writing and Outcome – that they have Already Mastered this Point and you Ask for their Support.
That is Why, with the Journey to Life – the Blogs are Written. They are Evidence of the Dedicated-Application to bring-about a Wholesome Human and a Wholesome World that is Best for All. And thus, if you are Helped – it is Necessary, as a Form of Gratefulness: that you Share your Journey in Writing, so that you may be of Service and Support to others as well. It is Important to Walk this in a Structured Way, and therefore – the Desteni I Process, is a Commitment to yourself within which you get to know yourself, firstly as ‘What Needs Changing’ and then as ‘Who you will Create yourself to Be’.
Join us.
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Saturday, 19 January 2013
Day 276: Bulimia and Desteni
“Let me Bully
my Body, ‘till it Fits my Imagination.” The Problem with Bulimia, is:
Imagination – and Imagination is a Product of our Profit-driven Society,
where Imagination is Deliberately Cultivated to Consume the
Mind-Personalities and Create Consumers that Guarantees Regular Profits.
It is the Enslavement of the Mind-Imagination to Images and Projections of Comparative Perfection. This is a Peculiar Need for Perfection that is as Unique as the Individual Bulimic. The Separation that exist between Body and Mind-Imagination as Personality, is So Extreme – that All Touch with Reality is Lost. And the Most Basic Commonsense of the Fact that Functional Life on Earth is a Physical Body, is Replaced with an Imaginary World where Body-Image is Always Judged and every Attempt is made to get it to ‘Fit’ the Imagination. There is Also an Irrational Fear that was Created by our Wonderful Capitalistic System that Demonized Fat as some Great Physical Poison, that must be Eradicated in Every Way Possible.
The Bulimic also Overlaps with the Anorexic, but the Bulimic Embodies the Concept of Competition so Extensively, that: if they’re not First and the Best Perfection, they’re a Failure - and this Failure Embodies a Throwing-Up of Food or the Use of Laxatives; both Words that Embodies the Concept of ‘Giving Up’ and the Lax Nature of Discipline within a Natural Order.
Psychology being a Product of Profit and Capitalistic Consumerism – Pounced on this Opportunity to Create Management Programs for Long-term Profit, with No Real Concern or Understanding of the Problem. This has Made Psychology Part of the Problem, without any Solutions.
The Fact that Secrecy plays such a Big Role in the Life of a Bulimic – stems from the same Secrecy that the Corporations use to Protect their so-called ‘Intellectual Property/Rights’, which is Why you never Really Know what’s in the Products you Buy and no-one Dealing with the Bulimic ever really know what’s actually going on in their Imagination. This makes Treating it Impossible, because – the Bulimic is not Treated as Responsible, but as ‘Diseased’. And that is Why Food Production in the World is Not Responsible – but Diseased, Inside and Outside, Above – Below: is Always the Same – and Bulimia is but a side-effect of our Social System that Totally Disregards the Value of Life and Place Emphasis on the Value of Imagination.
Understand that, the Bulimic is Quite Capable of Stopping their Inner Disorder as Imagination, If they Understand How they Create their Imagination in the First Place. But that, no Parent, no Educator, no Psychologist Understand at all – as they are All in some way a ‘Failure’, and thus in some way Bulimic. Trying to Force Nature into the Shape of Imagination to Achieve some form of Happiness that can apparently only exist in the Imagination.
With Desteni, we have Solved this Problem some Years ago and Present the Necessary Support that will Assist a Person to Self-Perfection, in a Way that is within the Natural Order of the Physical World. Within this, the Person Learn to Understand their Own Creative Power and that, when this Creative Power is Abused as Imagination: there are Consequences, which In Fact do Not Bring Perfection – but brings Total Inner-Chaos and Extensive Stress that is Placed on the Physical Body.
There is No happiness, in fact, in Imagination – as Imagination requires Fear at all times to be Fuelled into its Obsessive, Positive, Direction; which in the Case of the Bulimic is: to Perfect the Body according to Imagination. ALL forms of Positive Direction in the Imagination – is Always Fuelled by Fear of Not Achieving it or Falling in the Opposite of the Imaginary Positive. Therefore, No Positive Thinking is actually Ever Positive, it is In Fact the Most Negative you can Ever be, because: you are Imposing Negative Consequences onto the Physical World through Positive Imagination.
At Desteni, we Present Training to Support those that Can overcome their Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) of the Positive Imagination, causing Negative Impact. For that we have Desteni I Process LITE and Forums and Blogs that may Assist. This will Not be a ‘Quick Fix’ as you have not created this Problem with your Imaginary Friend as the Positive overnight, and most of the Symbolism and Thought Characterizations and Memories that you use in Creating this False Image of yourself – took Many Years and you can’t Remember them all. So, it is a Journey to Life.
What is the Reward of this? To become a Whole Human, Perfected in Every Way – that Honour Life, that Respect yourself and others, that Live in Balance and Live a Life Worth Living
It is the Enslavement of the Mind-Imagination to Images and Projections of Comparative Perfection. This is a Peculiar Need for Perfection that is as Unique as the Individual Bulimic. The Separation that exist between Body and Mind-Imagination as Personality, is So Extreme – that All Touch with Reality is Lost. And the Most Basic Commonsense of the Fact that Functional Life on Earth is a Physical Body, is Replaced with an Imaginary World where Body-Image is Always Judged and every Attempt is made to get it to ‘Fit’ the Imagination. There is Also an Irrational Fear that was Created by our Wonderful Capitalistic System that Demonized Fat as some Great Physical Poison, that must be Eradicated in Every Way Possible.
The Bulimic also Overlaps with the Anorexic, but the Bulimic Embodies the Concept of Competition so Extensively, that: if they’re not First and the Best Perfection, they’re a Failure - and this Failure Embodies a Throwing-Up of Food or the Use of Laxatives; both Words that Embodies the Concept of ‘Giving Up’ and the Lax Nature of Discipline within a Natural Order.
Psychology being a Product of Profit and Capitalistic Consumerism – Pounced on this Opportunity to Create Management Programs for Long-term Profit, with No Real Concern or Understanding of the Problem. This has Made Psychology Part of the Problem, without any Solutions.
The Fact that Secrecy plays such a Big Role in the Life of a Bulimic – stems from the same Secrecy that the Corporations use to Protect their so-called ‘Intellectual Property/Rights’, which is Why you never Really Know what’s in the Products you Buy and no-one Dealing with the Bulimic ever really know what’s actually going on in their Imagination. This makes Treating it Impossible, because – the Bulimic is not Treated as Responsible, but as ‘Diseased’. And that is Why Food Production in the World is Not Responsible – but Diseased, Inside and Outside, Above – Below: is Always the Same – and Bulimia is but a side-effect of our Social System that Totally Disregards the Value of Life and Place Emphasis on the Value of Imagination.
Understand that, the Bulimic is Quite Capable of Stopping their Inner Disorder as Imagination, If they Understand How they Create their Imagination in the First Place. But that, no Parent, no Educator, no Psychologist Understand at all – as they are All in some way a ‘Failure’, and thus in some way Bulimic. Trying to Force Nature into the Shape of Imagination to Achieve some form of Happiness that can apparently only exist in the Imagination.
With Desteni, we have Solved this Problem some Years ago and Present the Necessary Support that will Assist a Person to Self-Perfection, in a Way that is within the Natural Order of the Physical World. Within this, the Person Learn to Understand their Own Creative Power and that, when this Creative Power is Abused as Imagination: there are Consequences, which In Fact do Not Bring Perfection – but brings Total Inner-Chaos and Extensive Stress that is Placed on the Physical Body.
There is No happiness, in fact, in Imagination – as Imagination requires Fear at all times to be Fuelled into its Obsessive, Positive, Direction; which in the Case of the Bulimic is: to Perfect the Body according to Imagination. ALL forms of Positive Direction in the Imagination – is Always Fuelled by Fear of Not Achieving it or Falling in the Opposite of the Imaginary Positive. Therefore, No Positive Thinking is actually Ever Positive, it is In Fact the Most Negative you can Ever be, because: you are Imposing Negative Consequences onto the Physical World through Positive Imagination.
At Desteni, we Present Training to Support those that Can overcome their Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) of the Positive Imagination, causing Negative Impact. For that we have Desteni I Process LITE and Forums and Blogs that may Assist. This will Not be a ‘Quick Fix’ as you have not created this Problem with your Imaginary Friend as the Positive overnight, and most of the Symbolism and Thought Characterizations and Memories that you use in Creating this False Image of yourself – took Many Years and you can’t Remember them all. So, it is a Journey to Life.
What is the Reward of this? To become a Whole Human, Perfected in Every Way – that Honour Life, that Respect yourself and others, that Live in Balance and Live a Life Worth Living
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Thursday, 17 January 2013
Day 274: Eating Disorders and Desteni
In the Years since Desteni’s Emergence – Eating Disorders were one of the First Things that Showed and thus we Investigated it Extensively. Several Blogs on this will be presented. There are also several people in the Journey to Life Blogging that Write about their Personal Experience with Eating Disorders.
It is Very Clear that, in Psychology, there is No Solution or Definitive Clear Approach to Solve this Problem - and that the Problem is Not Understood.
In the Case where an Eating Disorder is a Physical Disease, or an Allergy-Reaction – to Identify the Nature of the Disorder through an Physical Food Elimination Process, is Relatively Easy.
In the Cases where Eating Disorders are of a Mental Nature that is Fuelled by Thoughts, Feelings, Emotions and Imaginings: it’s a Total Different Kettle of Fish. In such Cases, the Condition has been Created Uniquely and Specifically by the Person within their Environment, themselves. This would Start as a Small Impulse that could be related to a Judgment, a Comparison, a Movie, a Picture of an Advertisement, Looking at Self in the Mirror – Multiple Different Possible Points, from which will Emerge a Cycle of Thought that will Grow in Magnitude to Eventually Convince the Person that their Thoughts, Feelings or Imaginings about themselves in relation to their Physical Image and how Food influence it: is Actually ‘Real’. This will take on Various Dimensions and end-up as a Disorder, which Nowadays All have ‘Special names’, Special Treatments and which is Regarded as a Mental Disorder that is not easily cured or stopped.
In Fact, like with All Psychological Disorders – it is the Bread and Butter of the Psychologist. And, in a World where Money Determines Everything: Curing a Patient – is Not High on the Agenda. As Profit and the Urgency of Survival, Influence the Psychologist. In the Words of a Psychologist, to Me, Directly, some years ago: “If we Cure All Mental Disorders – How will we Eat?” Therefore, their approach is one of Management, rather than Cure.
The SOLUTION to Eating Disorders is to Study the Creation of the Mental Entity that became the Dominant Character through which Thoughts, Emotions and Feelings and Imaginings are Created – to Keep the Person Trapped in a Loop of their Own Self-Destruction. As this has Normally Taken Years to be Created: it Takes Years to Dissect Every Memory, Every Mutation of a Memory, Every Thought, Every Emotion, Every Feeling and All facets of Imagination – to See How one Created the Condition, Yourself.
Depending on which Stage a Person is Supported with the Process of Self-Correction – it will be Easier or More Difficult. The Easier Point is where the Person has not yet Convinced themselves that What they Experience As All the Mental Processes, is Actually Real. Once a Person has Convinced themselves that this is Actually Real: it becomes a Far More Difficult Task to get them to a Point of Self-Honesty and Commonsense Correction.
We have Done this Already at Desteni in Several Occasions and the Support is Available.
We will Discuss Warning Signs, Ways of Support and the Reward of Being Free from this Silent Visitor that Functions in the Mind with the Full Permission of its Creator.
The Following Blogs can be Followed for Support, as they are all Related to Obsessive Compulsive Disorders (OCD), of which Eating Disorders form Part:
Malin's Journey to Life
Leila's Journey to Life
Kim's Journey to Life
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