Day 67: Relationship Dynamics – Part 2

This is a continuation to:
Day 66: Relationship Dynamics – Part 1

Watch the Documentaries The Trap, The Century of the Self and Psywar for context

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that in Consumerism, the Consumer forms a Relationship with the Pictures Used in the Packaging of a Product - and According to the Pictures Stored in Memory as to the Desired Self-Interest Outcome, will Like or Dislike  a product and Buy or Not Buy a Product.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that Every Relationship a Human Has Must Pass the Backchat Discussion in the Secret Mind, which the Human Call: ‘Let me Think about it’ – the Backchat is the Real Decision Maker that will either approve of the Relationship or not, and in Almost all Cases, the Backchat will Only Approve Self-Interest and the Opportunity to WIN, especially against all ODDS.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that there are always 2 sides OR more to any Relationship, that is: the Face of Pretension for all to see, and the Real Face in the Secret Mind Backchat, and the Face Shared with Confidants – the Complete Self-Honest truth virtually Never Sees the Light of Day, and is Kept in the Darkness of the Mind.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that Relationships are Always Based on the Premise of Mutual Benefit, where the so-called Compassionate will allow the Partner to WIN first, but the Compassionate will expect to be allowed to Win Later, while Claiming No Competitive Edge – all the while the Compassionate is the Best Deceivers that Competes under Stealth still in the Spirit of the Competition of Consumption, with the Compassionate more likely to win through the Manipulation of Giving First. This way of the Compassionate IS NOT Equality, or the Giving and Receiving of Life Support, but is the Giving of Self-Interested Deception as part of the Extreme Nature of Man, as the nature of Self-Interest - where all Words can be traced Back to Self-Interest and Not Life; showing that Even the Compassionate, in the Consumerism System, has a place where the Skills of Deception can be Practiced  with a Smile and with the Word of Love on the Lips like Honey that Ensnares.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that the Primary Relationship in a Person’s Life is with Money or Spirituality, where the Value of both Relationships are determined by the Success of Money Movement. The Nature and Success of Any Relationship is Based on the Mutual Profit for all Parts of the Relationship – when parts of the Relationship threatens the Profit of other Parts, the Relationship will turn to Conflict and a GOOD Person (because the Relationship was profitable), will turn to a BAD Person (because Money is being Lost).

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that in Investigating Relationships, the Money factor should be Considered first, as it is Both the Most Important Part and the Most Hidden Part in All Relationships, as it is a Constant Game for Superiority where the Game-plan of all Participants in Relationships is Kept Hidden.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that there is Nothing that will not Be Revealed, and that Relationships should be based on What is Here in the Physical World in Fact – to allow Decisions to be Made that are Best for All.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that the Human is an All the Time Multi-Dimensional Lie Machine that never Plays Open Cards and is Self-Honest – and Therefore, until this is Realized and this Dishonesty is Stopped, Life on Earth will be Spiraling to Extinction with the Human Last to Go, as those that Saw Themselves as First and Chosen, will be Last.

I commit myself to show that Images are Used to Form Relationships with Consumers in Relation to Brand Loyalty.

I commit myself to show that all People have a Constant Inner-Discussion, and that this is IN Fact Proof of Mental Instability. Some call this Inner-Talk: thought, but Once you Answer Back to a thought, or the Voice in the Head, Stop and Look why there is 2 of you.

I commit myself to show that all Relationships, from Love, to Friendship, to Casual - are about Money, or Energy - and is always Money.

I commit myself to show that all words are Compromised to Serve the Profit Motive and that when you Investigate the nature of the Relationships implied by Words you will find the Profit/WIN Motive in there Somewhere.

I commit myself to show that the Honesty is all in the Money.

I commit myself to show that Personal Self-Interest is SO DOMINANT, that a Proposal that will Benefit ALL EQUALLY, even to a Better Position that the Individual is IN NOW, will be Rejected - just because the EGO will Not WIN, and the Energy Payback Linked to Money will be lost.

Day 66: Relationship Dynamics – Part 1

Watch the Documentaries The Trap, The Century of the Self and Psywar for context

I forgive myself that I haven't accepted and allowed myself to realize that Relationships are the Dynamics of Creation.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that Relationships either Move Closer Together or Further apart - and that the Closer one Gets together, the Better one Gets to Know each other’s Patterns.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that unless Patterns in Equality as Equals are willed to Be so, Competition will emerge and Someone will win and Someone will lose.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that the Inner Pattern of Relationship to Words as Memories Determines the Nature of the Person, and the Strengths and Weaknesses of the Personality.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that the true Measured Value of Relationships and How this forms and Influences Decisions throughout Life is not Grasped at all.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that a Baby that Ends up With a Pack of Wolves will end up as a Wolf in Nature, as the Environment and Parental Influence as the Wolves determines the formation of the Awareness of the Child as the Child.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize the Extent to which the World is Placed in the hands of Parents totally Incapable to be the Parent a child Requires to be a Living Form that will Support and Appreciate Life as an Equal.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that All Relationships are Measurable in their Power of Influence and to what Degree they will Cause the Influenced to follow and Internalize the Influence to End up as Happy with the Influence.

I commit myself to assist as many People as Possible to Study the dynamics of Relationships to bring an end to the Abuse of Relationships through the Influence of Self-Interest.

I commit myself to show that the Relationships formed with Memories and the Nature of the Energetic Charge, determines How One ‘Feel’ about the Content of the Memory, which Confirms that Feeling is NOT a Trustworthy means to assess Values!

I commit myself to show that to change the World, we must Change our Approach to Parenting - because once an Adult, the Brainwashed Adult WILL NOT  change with Ease, it WILL BE a Lifelong Battle for Freedom with Uncertain Outcomes.

I commit myself to show that the Power of Influence through Pictured Relationships is a known way to Influence and Control the Viewer, and is being abused on a Daily Basis in the world by those with Money, to get more Money.  Time to stop this – Investigate Equal Money.

Day 13: Failed Relationships

It is suggested that you share this writing with your partner and see what is the real temperature and intimacy and trust in your relationship.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself  to not see that relationships will fail if I have expectations that are greater than the reality of the relationship and I do not communicate and align myself to build intimate trust through effective sharing and immediate self forgiveness if I find that I react in some emotion or feeling towards my partner.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself  to not see that when I project my pre-programmed designs onto my partner that I would create a fighting environment where we would both argue for our limitations creating an energetic game where we would compete with one another.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself  to not see that to create intimacy within my agreement I have to BE intimate within my agreement.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself  to not see that if I would like to create a more affectionate agreement I have to give affection.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to be guided by feelings instead of that which forms effective equal relationships and ended up disappointed and with feelings of failure and inadequacy when my expectations turn out to be different to reality because I did not spend time to get to know my partner and did not make sure that my partner will in fact be able to change to what is best for all life as that will be best for the relationship.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not be self honest about  my life to my partner as I fear they would never accept me if they know all about me, but later when they found out the partner felt more betrayed by me not sharing than about my ideas of my past and how it may influence another.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself not to realize that any new relationship is a complete package with the past of both partners as part of the package that must be investigated and released with self forgiveness to make sure past issues that have become part of the living tissue do not emerge to sabotage the newly formed relationship.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that relationships are based in words and that unless me and my partner align our vocabulary to have the same meaning, we will end up miscommunicating and with constant miscommunication, resentment and judgment will build that will sabotage the relationship.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to refuse to see that money will play a major role in the effectiveness of any relationship and that if I do not play open cards about money from the beginning to establish trust and to see that there would be no issues about the past of money, the present of money and the future of money, due to a clear understanding to clear the past issues with money together, establish a present effective action with money to build a future with money that would support therelationship to develop in ways that would bond the relationship in its sharing, the money issue will cause resentment and back chat and the back chat will lead to the failure of the relationship.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed  myself to not see that sexual ability is always an ego issue and that past sexual skills are not necessarily present sexual effective expression as the new relationship will require new specific alignment and the discovery of each other which must be practised regularly and with full participation from both parties to lead to a fulfilling relationship and that whenever an issue arise, it must be addressed immediately, because if I allow it to fester, it will become back chat as resentment thoughts which will lead to emotions that will influence effective touching and sex and lead to the eventual failure of the relationship.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to refuse to see that effective self honest communication and an effective letting go through self forgiveness of the past will support a relationship to be very effective and a pleasure to be part of. Any thoughts that are in any way derogative or judgmental to a partner or any thoughts that would compare a partner to a previous partner or an imaginary partner are all indicators that the relationship is in trouble and immediate communication and self forgiveness to stop this secret position towards the partner must be done or it will grow in energy intensity till it burst over either in infidelity or anger or any other emotion that will be destructive and could be used by either partner to end the relationship.  It must be considered that where there are secrets in a relationship, the likelihood that such relationship will last is not good.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to  not consider that when I compromise my values and or cause my partner to compromise values, resentment as secret thoughts will develop with a judgmental blaming nature that will grow and imprint on the physical body until I become possessed with the energy and use the energy to bring change to the relationship instead of preventing these type of events with a self honest heart to heart that leads to self forgiveness and forgiveness of each other where each take self responsibility to act with integrity at all times within the relationship.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that I have never been trained to be a skilful relationship partner and that education in relationships skills will improve the effectiveness of the relationships extensively and prevent failed relationships.

I commit myself to enter any relationship on the basis of equal agreement to directively  form a sound foundation from where the agreed relationship can prosper.

I commit myself to investigate and understand mypreprogrammed designs, to effectively remove them before I enter in an agreed relationship for life so that I will be aligned to in fact walk my relationship with life as my partner and to insist that my partner do the same as there is sufficient evidence in the many failed relationships that relationship technology and self technology  is necessary to prevent failure and to enhance effective living.

I commit myself to give intimacy as I would like to receive intimacy so that my giving will be the example for my partner as to what I would like to receive and that we as partners agree to not want anything from each other unless we give to each other to show by example what it is we would like to receive as intimate communication, touch and togetherness.

I commit myself to give affection as I would like to receive affection so that my giving will be the example for my partner as to what I would like to receive and that we as partners agree to not want anything from each other unless we give to each other to show by example what it is we would like to receive as affection.

I commit myself to not enter in relationships by feeling, but by agreement as to what is best for both parties to make sure we start with common ground and do not end in failure because we rushed in high on emotion only to found out we were blind to the obvious.

I commit myself to face my fears about the judgments of others and to share my past with my prospective partner so that it can be clear whether the partner will accept all of me or not. Unless both partners accept all of each other’s past regardless of what happened, the relations will not be based on a sound agreement and may fail at any stage. I commit myself to close all back doors so that no sudden secret issue form the past may become the reason for one or the other partner to use it as a reason to call the relationship agreed upon as a failure.

I commit myself to as partners together investigate how words make us feel and experience ourselves and to identify the primary words we would like to live as our world and to redefine these words together so that we can be as one in the creation of our future together as we understand if we work against each other because we are not as one, the relationship is bound to fail. Thus, if we cannot agree to work as one in all our words as living words, the relationship should be failed before it starts.

I commit myself to be open about all money matter, earnings and debt that we as partners can plan our life together and start with a foundation of trust.

I commit myself to leave my ego outside the agreed relationship and to explore sexuality in fun and entertaining ways so that both partners can develop an effective relationship with the body as vehicle of life.

I commit myself to make self honest self forgiveness part of the agreed relationship as that would ensure that the relationship will weather all storms, but the best of it is that most storms will be prevented through clear communication and a structured effective living style.

I commit myself to never compromise the agreed values of the relationship as that will lead to failure and we have agreed that failure is not an option and must prove that in our effective living by not having failure as an option. This will improve communication and the force of two as one will be very effective in all we do in this life.

I commit myself to investigate how I could become more effective with the skills necessary that will ensure that my relationships do not fail.