Showing posts with label dysfunctional. Show all posts
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Monday, 16 September 2013

Day 500: Masturbation and the Law of Attraction - Devolution - Part 8

Continuing from the previous blog, Day 499: Masturbation and the Law of Attraction - I AM that I AM - Part 7:
“Because those in the elite don’t really want to do the work. They want a nice physical experience, but they don’t want to actually do anything that is going to get that experience. So therefore they get the rest of the world to do it for them, I mean that is business isn’t it? Wouldn’t you do the same; I mean the principle of free choice will allow you to do that. You can manipulate as you wish in this world because as long as free choice exists. As long as inequality is seen as equality. As long as it is possible to hide behind the point, the fact that you are equal to that education means that’s all you can ever be. So let’s keep you at that point, you do the work, I’ll pay you, you do all the stuff. “

url bernardpoolman We have created the system that feeds off each other where some are living like gods on earth, even in this current economic crisis in this world there are those that live in ways you cannot begin to imagine. There are those that have money and then most that don’t – most that are living on the bread line – that means they just have enough money to make sure that their children get into the system – and there is food on the table. So their children can continue in the accepted tradition of serving the great I AM, the world system. That is taken to – or attempted to be taken into the next stage. A few problems obviously. All that had to happen over time within the evolution of ‘love’ was to create another way to trap everyone. Like you now have the love cycle within the New Age that has become a wonderful money making machine. Everybody jumps on the band wagon and defends it, why? To make money.

How do we stop this nonsense? We have investigated this extensively. We found one particular way it is possible for us to actually stop this nonsense: A new money system – a money system where life is valued, I mean when you are born you immediately have your life supply of money with which you can do exchanges and support you within the world system. Will it mean we have to change our morality? Certainly. Does it mean that some people are not going to want to actually create food? Certainly but I mean if you are not willing to feed yourself or create food for yourself – eventually you are going to starve and then that will get you moving. So there is going to be problems within the suggested system of equality but not problems as big as we have now and we can consider actually evolving, because at the moment we are not evolving we are devolving. We can consider building a system where everyone is supported equally, where everyone is actually receiving an equal education. Where our vocabulary is equal so that when we talk to each other we can understand each other – we don’t have to fight for supremacy – because the system is designed for a win/lose situation. But if everyone is on a win/win situation, it’s professed, like in the 7 habits and the secret – a win/win solution. Where is the practical win/win solution?

There is no practical win/win solution as long as there is no equal money for all. Not in this world system as it exists, not possible because the source of what is here take the human away and there is no human, so who is the one that must make this decision to change the world system? It is the human. Common sense practically applied with self honesty will show one the points that is required to change the world system. Will there be pain? Yes, for some of the rich they will actually have to do something to get something. They will no longer be able to manipulate to get everything. Yes there will be a difference for the poor, because suddenly they will have something they never had so they might overdo it in the beginning. I mean if you can suddenly have access to what you could never have – initially you overindulge a little bit. But soon with the sickness of overindulgence, you get to a point of equilibrium.

Within this all we have to consider the following interesting point. One must consider that this must have a definitive effect eventually – is that when you die, what is certain? You are no longer here in this reality and you no longer have access to this reality. Everything that you have been in this reality no longer exist, because if it did exist when you were born you would have remembered it. But when you are born you remember nothing.

There is that which you could call an afterlife. We have found such a place, but it is disturbing in its nature because what is left of a human after death is rather limited. I would advise you to consider that there is a consequence for every single thought you have – this is in all religions. There is a consequence for every deed. There is a consequence for every word and there is a consequence for everything you don’t do and there is a consequence for everything you accept and allow in this world. That consequence is that what you allow, you become. So if you exist in separation from other beings that is coming from the same source of life, you diminish. Equal to the amount of separation to what you are existing in – so that at death only your diminished part will pass over and you will have to come back to this reality to find the part you have left behind.

To consider all life, which is in everything that exists in this reality equally is a common sense suggestion. You can equate it scientifically, you can equate it mathematically, you can equate it in every known way. As long as you stay out of your imaginary world where there is some fucker called God or some thing called divinity. There is no such divinity. You are actually creating this world yourself, instantaneously as who you are as the physical part of you. That determines what actually happens – the actual space/time actions. The things you really participate in, the things you really don’t do, the things you really allow, the things you really accept like: masturbation, sex, sport – all the things you really do. Those things are really happening. The things that are really happening in your imaginary world – take a look they don’t happen - very seldom do they.

Saturday, 3 August 2013

Day 468: Relationship-Agreements and the Cutting-Edge of Time

relationship-counselling Now most people live within the premise that Relationships and Love ‘Happens to you’ and when it ‘Happens to you’ and ‘the Feeling is Right’ then it Must be Right and then, you use the Feeling to Change your Behavior to Ensure that at least for a little while, your Relationship Works. But as the Divorce rate and the Break-up rate shows, this Feeling called ‘Love’ can Hardly be Trustworthy because If it were True, it would Stand the Test of Time and it is Not Standing the Test of Time at All.

Now within the Correct Approach to Relationship-Agreements, one must Walk the Cutting-Edge of Time and within that you have to realize that a Relationship-Agreement is Two People Agreeing to Be Together for the Benefiting of Both, finding out each other’s Strengths, Placing this together so that the Relationship becomes 1+1=2 and not 1+1=1 which is the ‘Love-Relationship’ thing. Because then Both are lost within a Feeling and there is no Practical Reality and you are Not in fact becoming Two or more in My name Together and the ‘In My Name’ is obviously the Name of Life, you are becoming just a name of ‘Love,’ of Feeling – Nothing more than the Sweetness of the Lollipop or the Sugar Pills your Mother gave you when they tried to Control you to Do What they Want you to Do. And the System is doing Exactly the Same.

So with the Cutting-Edge of Time within the Relationship-Agreements, the point is to Do an In Fact Data Assessment of Strengths and Weaknesses, then to do a Data Assessment of your Vocabulary so that you can have a Look that you are Agreeing on the Meaning of Words, because the Meaning of Words will give the Meaning of Life so you have to sit and Get to Know Each Other and so Develop your Agreement. It is best not to Start with the Physical Relationship first, That will in a way Screw things up, you Start with your Agreement Terms. Agreement Terms are a Contract, the Contract is How you are Working Together within the Terminology. The Terminology are the Words, Agreeing what it is that you’re going to Live Together as One Unit but you are Two People. So the Oneness is within the Agreement – not because ‘You become One,’ you can’t even Become One during Sex, you just have a Merging of your Potential Futures as Children and also within the context of the support of Assisting the Physical to Release Unnecessary Build-up of Energy that will Influence your Vocabulary and the way you Live. So, Sexuality is a Relationship Maintenance Program, it assists with Maintaining Balance. If you don’t have that Effectively in an Agreement and you don’t have an Alternative outlet for the Build-up of Energy obviously the Relationship will be in Trouble.

So within Relationship-Agreements understand the Vital Nature of Agreeing to the Foundation Structure of your Agreement -- and there you have to Look at the Words you Live and you have to Look at the Thoughts that Arise -- because you would have through the years of your Masturbation Secret Life, you would have created All kinds of Feelings and Terminologies in terms of What You Want within an Agreement. The fact that that obviously is All Staged – because that is what Pornography is, it is Staged – and Not True in Real Life seems to Escape all those that become Addicted to Masturbation. Being Addicted to Masturbation is the Same Addiction as Pornography, the only difference is that you have the Pornography in Your Mind Now, You are now Your Own Hustler and Playboy Magazine, you Carry it around in your Head, you Use it as you Need it and you’ll notice a fascinating thing as you Progress with your Pornography magazine in your Mind, your Masturbation: you will need more and more Bizarre Stimulus to Reach Satisfaction because the Satisfaction will Just Not be Enough, the Release will Just Not be Enough. And that is How People End up becoming Pedophiles for instance, they start with Normal Pornography, Masturbation and then Progress eventually to Children because they’re looking at the Secrecy Part, the Challenge Part, the Satisfaction Part which is Based on the Secret Mind and where the Energy Intensity Grows with the Possibility of Getting ‘Caught out.’ Now this happens and is taught already by the Parent, because the Parent put down the Roles and Rules of Engagement for the Child with Threats about ‘What will Happen if you are Caught.’ The Child then will Do something, there will be an Increase in Energy, Anxiety about Getting Caught – by the time the Event Happens the Parent will Do Nothing and will even Laugh about it because they’ll say: “I did the same.” The Child will become even more Invigorated by the Fact that they Got Away with it and that the Energy they Experienced will now start ‘Feeling Good’. So the Anxiety will Become a Good Energy and will Change a name –but the Energy will be the Same – it will become Excitement. And now the Secrecy Point will change Anxiety into Excitement and the Negativity of that Point would have been Transformed by the Parent into a Positive Image and the Child will End up Using that in some cases, and this is Not all Cases in their Existence to become Sexually Deviant.

Obviously Other Deviances will Develop as well, they are all a Matter of Progression. The more a person is Isolated from society, the Less Interaction a Person has through Friendship and/or Agreements = the Greater the Relationship that will be Formed with the Energetic Possession Principles that are specially surrounding Masturbation and therefore, the Person will turn into a Sex Pervert. The Perversion that takes place is all taking place in the Mind and inevitably through the Repetition of it, the person Brainwash themselves Into a Pervert and then become the Physical Living Expression of the Perversion. And this is something that Should be Diagnosed and Prevented at an Early age already, it should be part of the Education Process of School so that one can Prevent these things from Happening, but Not even the Psychologists yet Understand the Exact Nature of How this Develops, because they are Not Able to Assess what is Really going on in the Mind or How the Mind Actually Functions, they’re only dealing with the End Result – Not with the Mechanism, it’s Not Real Science – You see Psychology is Not Real Science! It is just Real Bullshit, it is so much so Bullshit that it’s just an Extension of Spirituality, there are Few Psychologists in the world that are Truly Dedicated to the Principle of prevention, which is the very Principle it should be Based on which is also what the Principle of Medicine should be based on, not to treat Symptomatic, but to Treat as Prevention. Doing that obviously is only possible when the Profit Motive is Removed from our Health Care Industry; as long as the Profit Motive exists= then there is No Possibility of Prevention, the Whole Point will be Driven to Symptom where Symptom = Profit.

And therefore we cannot trust our Health Care system, we cannot Trust our Nutritional System, we cannot trust our Psychology System, they are all Symptomatic Based, they are like Taste-based and at the End the Taste is in the Profit unfortunately and because professions which are Involved in Health Care have become Highly Paid, it’s become really Profitable to Be this. This requires Urgent Addressing as the situation will Spiral more and more Out of Control. Read the News – Go Back 10 years, Read the News – Go Back Another 10 years – Read the News and you’re going to See what are the New Events that are taking place on Earth, how are they Accumulating, what are the Causes and you will notice that tells you the Level and the Process of Evolution as we are forever losing to the fact that we don’t understand How things Really actually Work.

So within one’s Agreements understand one of the most Difficult points you’re going to Face in being able to go into a Proper Relationships-Agreements are the things you have Done while you were Masturbating. You have created your Dysfunction within a Relationship and eventually within Marriage through Masturbation and your Disrespect for Other People because of the Masturbation point. You Need to Correct that, You need to Write it out and then Live according to the writing. You have to Fundamentally Change Yourself – we have already, as we are supporting Many people within Relationship issues, been in Multiple Situations where we had to Support Young People with Erectile Dysfunction, Young People with Sexual Problems within their Relationships – All of it caused by their Masturbation History, by the Addiction that they have Developed, by the fact that they have Developed an Image and Likeness of their Future Sexual Life based on Pornography and that they have Copied a Complete Publishing House in the mind where they Produce the Pornography according to What they Need to Reach Satisfaction during Masturbation. And now your Partner has got to Step into that Position in your life – your Future Partner – and suddenly Become your Whore that Satisfies your Pornographic Addiction: That’s Not going to Happen! It is Not Real in the Physical! It is Staged! You want to have a Proper Relationships-Agreement = You have to Stop your Pornography in your Mind and you have to Stop Masturbation.

Masturbation is Effective Within the Agreement where you are Doing things Together as a Team, you’re Doing it WITH Each Other and FOR Each Other, a Team Marriage, a Marriage is a Team, an Agreement is a Team – it Makes you Both Better because You are a Human that is Limited in the Physical World, you Can Never be the Best Alone, the Best is Only Possible in a Team. That’s why the Best World is the Team Human, All Humans Working together to Produce what’s Best, that’s the only way that we can have the Best World, it’s a Team – Working Together Creates Strength.

So, Few at this stage will have the Self-Honesty and the Discipline yet to Actually Create Proper Relationship Agreements, it takes Massive Effort to Build an Effective Solution. We have Agreement Courses to Assist you, they Work on the Principle of Self-Honesty, You Pay what You Can Afford and if you Cannot Afford to Pay: you are Sponsored. There is only One Condition, the Condition is to your Benefit is that you Write Daily, because in Writing Daily you are able to Walk the Cutting-Edge of Time, the Cutting-Edge of Breath and you can have a look at Where you are Not yet Disciplined and Principled Enough and Do Not have Enough Integrity yet to Walk the Words you are Writing and that way you can Learn what’s the Difference between Change and Energetic Release, they are Not the same thing.

Energetic Release is what is being Proposed by the New Age Fraternity because it’s similar to Psychology: it gives you a Quick Solution, it’s like Masturbation, it Releases the Energy but it Doesn’t Change you. So for a moment you ‘Feel Better’ and then you say “I’ve Changed because I Feel Better, I am Experiencing it!” But it’s Not True because You are Not Consistently the Same Yesterday, Today and Tomorrow in Your Change, you haven’t Really changed. Change is a Permanent Condition, while Energetic Release is a Temporary Solution, is a Temporary Relationship, it’s the Relationship with your Current Publicized Desire.

Correct Relationships will Take Great Effort, it takes Dedication, it takes Commitment, it takes Discipline, Respect… All the Words that you Truly would Like to Live – that is Part of a proper Relationship-Agreement.

So, if You are Ready for that Type of Life, a Life that is Extraordinary, a Life of Integrity, a Life that Brings Harmony, a Life without Anxiety, a Life Free from Fear, a Life Complete, Wholesome and Fulfilled, a Life that will be the Practical Version of Love for Real, then you Join Desteni because You Understand Your Desteni is something that you are Responsible for and you are Taking Responsibility for your Desteni. If you are Not Ready for that and you Just want to Continue with your Self-Interest and Addiction: by all means, the Consequence is Certain and eventually You will Face it. Make your Decisions: You Determine Your Life, that’s the Point of Free Choice. Freedom? That’s a complete different story, that Doesn’t Exist yet because the Humans are Not yet Able to Make a Free Choice that will Ensure the Freedom of Everyone, because Unless that is Equal, obviously: Your Choice is Not Really Free.