Day 498: Masturbation and the Law of Attraction – Oneness Implications - Part 6

Continuing from the previous blog, Day 497: Masturbation and the Law of Attraction – Recycling Energy - Part 5: “So, it becomes quite complex if you want to have an experience – which is called masturbation – within an energetic expression. How do you do it without a relationship? You do it with yourself, as an expression. Where you do not involve another being. Where you do not take their energy so that you could have some satisfaction.”

Because the moment you take something – there is another law within the Law of Attraction: the Law of Balance. Positive, negative will always move in exchange. In that movement of exchange, it discharges, that means: as the positive moves towards the negative, it’s giving the energy to the negative and the negative becomes the positive. And then, the positive moves to the negative and it gives its energy to the negative, because that’s how energy flows – the positive gets to the negative and so it moves – to and fro, to and fro.

It moves, the energy. We don’t see that, because we are that energy moving. We are experiencing the energy as it moves – so we are either positive or negative. We’re not considering that we have become this very energy that is moving as the mind and we start to forget about our real reality. The physical reality exist here and we don’t look after it anymore, because we’re trying to satisfy our imaginary reality, where we have a positive and a negative.

In real reality you have what? You do labor, you eat food – it creates energy in your physical body, the waste products are released through shitting, it goes back into the Earth, it is re-cycled, back into the plants and again becomes food. I mean, we always eat our own shit – we just don’t want to look at it that way. Every piece of food you ever eat that comes from the Earth, is coming from manure – either dog shit, animal shit, human shit or shit from the trees that is decomposing, that is regenerated through the sun. And photosynthesis is an example into food that we eat that turns into energy, physical energy with which we do things. Once that energy is finished, we need to eat again. Have a look, what happens in the mind? It also needs a feeding ground.

What is fascinating? That we have created ourselves as beings that exist not in the physical, but exist as personalities, as ideas within our mind of ourselves. We judge our physicality, we want to look a certain way and we go into all kinds of regimes of how we should be looking – because we have this perfect picture of what we want to be – instead of accepting who we are and working with what we are. Then, we create our own world, not according to what the physical requires, but according to what we mentally require. We call that ‘mental stimulus’, we call that ‘intelligence’, we call them all kinds of wonderful things, but what has that brought us in this physical reality? We have a world in peril, we have beings being abused sexually, which starts off – your sexual abuse that starts off with imaginary abuse, becomes an obsession and it’s all done in secret and that secret Law of Attraction attract people to each other that ends up in abuse situations. Your child may end up in an abuse situation because you masturbated and imagined – and now, your sins are being visited upon your… - the sins of the fathers are being visited upon their children up to the seventh generation – what does that mean? They have to discharge the energetic responsibility you have created while you were abusing another being, using energy. So now, your child gets abused by an unknown stranger, a ‘bad man’ – but you love masturbation and you love to imagine a unknown man knocking on the front door, walking in your house and taking you violently and taking you to a massive orgasmic experience – and you imagine that all the time and you masturbate about it – it’s so wonderful… Now it happens to your child and you’re mad at the world – come on, some self-honesty here – who created this? Oh, Great Creator.

Day 496: Masturbation and the Law of Attraction - Sex Gods - Part 4

Continuing from the previous blog, Day 495: Masturbation and the Law of Attraction – Money Transfers - Part 3:
“This inequality has taken the world now closer and closer to a brink of total destruction. Because more and more understand one thing -and you can imagine that for yourself: as more and more people are without the basic needs to survive, the human being will turn into a survival instinct being. What will the human do? What will you do for your children if you don´t have food? Would you steal? You will steal. Will you sell your body for money? You will sell your body for money -you will do whatever it takes to feed your children. We are busy creating a society which is going to have consequences for us for some time to come.”

And, everyone have a look. You feel powerless and helpless to do anything about it. We have created a magnificent way to deal with it. We have created an energetic feeling. We call it LOVE. "Let´s just love the world back together". Let´s take that love-feeling back to masturbation and sex: how well is that working? Two thirds of everyone that gets together in that feeling of love end up divorcing, isn´t it? The others end up in secret relationships. So at the end of the day, very few people in this world are actually in a sexual relationship within a relationship that you can call love. Because it´s all about this energetic movement. The moment you are fulfilled with your energy, you tend to have eyes that wonder whether another feeling of energy won´t be greater than the one you already have. And then you start searching for another feeling and you call that love as well. And then you say: "I don´t love you anymore. I am now looking for another love." But what you are really looking for is not love. It is energy.

So that´s why we at Desteni say that love doesn´t really exist as one would like it to be. The love that exists in the world is one based in energy. And that energy has a beginning and an end. It changes -from love to hate, from hate to love. It´s most prolifically demonstrated in relationships. And specifically in sex and masturbation. For instance, if you are making love to your wife and while you´re making love a picture pops in that takes you to your orgasm -because that´s your imaginary relationship that you have on the side, your dream relationship that you in secret masturbate about while you are in your marriage, you must know your marriage is in serious trouble. It´s inevitable that you are going to get fed up with your partner because your imaginary relationship is going to grow stronger than your real relationship. And then, once that breaks up, you´ll say "ok cool, now I can actually go out and find another love partner. But in fact, you were already committing an act of adultery in the time that you had your imaginary relationship.
The same as what happens when you´re busy with your masturbation relationship. And understand, we are talking here about the principles that happen within energy -don´t believe what I´m saying, go and investigate it for yourself self-honestly. Look at yourself and at that what you´ve already experienced. Don´t justify! Don´t make it right - be self-honest! And you´re going to be amazed at what you´re going to find about what´s really going on within are so called oneness-reality of the great human being.

So, let´s look at the point, the implication, of you being able to within a oneness reality (being able) to bring into your energetic presence the energy you perceive that you...when you saw a person walking on the street that you have now an imaginary relationship with, you had a particular feeling that that person transferred to you -which was their energy, that was their presence. So now you bring their presence which is their energy into your energy without their permission and then you masturbate, taking it to an orgasm, making/creating this imaginary beautiful experience -but what are you really doing? What you do in thought, word and deed is the same. That is an understanding within all our religions. The implication of what you are doing is actually: rape. You are actually raping the person. Look at it: you are taking a person against their will, (taking) their energy and you are having a sexual experience. No permission is possible.

If one take porn for instance what is it you are busy with? You are believing that you have an exchange - that the being, because they make money out of what they are doing, that that gives you permission to actually masturbate around the porn. Yes, from that perspective it´s so. They are selling their energy, which is their body, their presence, the way they feel, the way they look. They are selling their energy. You are buying that energy, you are bringing it into your reality and you´re exchanging that for your money. Because -the exchange is money, isn´t it? So therefore, by masturbating on porn you´re going to find an interesting thing: you´re not going to have money come to you very easily, because you are giving it all away to porn -as one of the energetic consequences of your experience.

Secondly, you are creating an imaginary world that will influence the relationships you have and that will cause you to lose respect or to compare your relationships: the imaginary one which is like a quantum reality where everything is perfect and you are the super-hero that fucks any girl up to the stand that she believes you are god, while in your real relationship it´s not so easy -I mean, that´s a real thing, you´ve got to really work on it to get to the point of the expression being ‘Wow’.

I mean, so, that’s a different story, but in your imaginary one, I mean – you are God, you’re a Sex God. Try and make that imaginary reality real in your physical reality in space and time. It is not possible. It takes time. You see – in your imaginary reality there is no time, because – you are moving time, remember – you are God in it. You are moving the space, you’re moving even the positions. And you can do the strangest things with bodies in an imaginary reality. I mean, they can be on top, on bottom – you can do all the strangest things, because – there is no consequence.