I found a nice way to use shame to motivate and push me into
action in every moment-- I see a moment as all that occurs in my world with all
the players/participants in the moment-- then I look at where I react or experience discomfort or withdrawal or my eyes move(see NLP) - I look at all
participants and where they are coming from in their participation in the
moment-- this I do on the in-breath and in the space before the outbreath--
study the moment-- on the outbreath-- I participate with all that I became aware
of in the moment-- I have found that whatever we are aware of in a moment, is
relevant to self expression and solving the problem-- then I take part-- mostly
causing havoc in a beings life as I speak straight as I do not want to stand
in shame before this being one day and say that I was aware of what they doing,
but didn't see it as my place to participate-- Equal and one as me means I am
responsible for what I am aware of in my participation-- Because--my awareness
is my Inner work and my inner world and so I correct my world-- this is the
practical perspective as living on the Spalding story--see also kid mongo
statement--how do we practically fix the world
with yourself
what is yourself
What you become aware of in every moment
how long will this take
as long as we take to stop being embarrassed or ashamed for
our limited participation in the moment--or as long as it takes us to see that
when we separate ourselves from our own awareness inside --we become less--
thus-- every-one around us--or on Tv--or at work--are part of our inner reality
look--we see much--but we are not honest-- we walk away and
say it is not our responsibility-- it is their process-- not true-
My process and your process is our inner awareness- and our
inner awareness is according to What we understand in the MOMENT--thus we are
the expert in the moment-- I suggest though-- first check if your awareness is
awareness and not conscious enslavement--
that is why forgiveness assist-- to clear consciousness in
the moment for awareness and honesty and inner corrective participation to take
place-- so
This is fascinating
Look-- each one of us will change the world through changing
ourselves by taking part fully without shame in the awareness we have in our
inside and reflect that outside as our outer experience and make another aware
of this inner-outer awareness that we must be honest with -- in doing this--our
inner conflict reflects outer for a moment- the person in our moment may react
with conflict-- but soosn the person becomes aware that what they thought was
secret inside them is really actually visible and embarrassingly trivial and
start to change themselves and observing their moments and understanding how
they were helped and soon
All understanding this?
Please ask questions on this-- this is the key to inner
peace and outer expression that brings freedom to all life